(UNKNOWN Asks:)
yup i`ve done it all i`ve even cried to my dad he doesn`t care or maybe he does but he just doesnt change anything... love is kind of like the last thing on my mind i`ve lost faith in it so badly that i dont even want anyone to enter my life ...love is just a entertainment package and the people who got entertainment out of my life got it...its just a word that just influences people and i learnt from it that... its so hard to find friends or people to trust nowadays because everyone breaks trust and leaves thats why i dont think i`ll ever find anyone that understands me... people who love me the most cant even understand me they just tell me whats right for me and expect me to do it.....they have soo many expectations it makes me break down and all i do is hide how i truly feel...they expect me to have confidence in myself but i dont really think its about that its basically having confidence in being able to keep faith and keep hope again.... losing so many people living with people who still feel so far away from me teaches me how life gives u no gaurantees with whoever or whatever you got... live alone and die alone thats just life... but its like some people that actually make a difference to it if you cant keep them happy whats the point of life....
(Jag Says:)
Listening to your statement and how you are feeling, some points is easier to address than others...
Your dad doesn’t care... most if not all dads do care, but they just don`t know how to show their emotions... What I suggest is that you spend time getting to know your dad again... find out what he likes/dislikes and maybe, just maybe he will start to listen to you
You second point, about love... this is a harder point to address... but I will try to put an argument to yourself to think about...
Someone once said to me, it is better to have loved and lost, rather than have never loved at all...
Yes, you are right, many people just use the word love to get want they want... but love comes in many forms... you can love you sister... or be in love with your boyfriend.. etc etc
Never give up on love, remember once you have been hurt by "love" you learn to understand it better and control it better then next time you come across someone...
My general advice to you is don`t put all your emotions in one basket... meaning, don`t give one person all your trust/love/emotions/respect etc etc
You will meet people from all walks of life, some you can trust to some degree.. others you can trust less and so on, do the same with all your other emotions... by spreading them you are less likely to get hurt or taken advantage off...
Confidence, if you don`t feel it, you are sure showing it... (I’m in the same boat as you, that what people say to me), what you must realize is that they can see something in you which you have not noticed or can see...
My advice, listen to them and grow this inner strength...
POint of life is to live it to the max, you are young, and have plenty of life in you... so take advantage and learn to enjoy life...
I await your next question
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